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August Service

Our next regular monthly service will be on August 1st, 2010.   At that time we will be asking and exploring an important question: "Why Does Truth Matter?"  Being Freethinkers, we hold that doubt about god(s) and many other things to be a virtue and blind faith the sin of willful ignorance.  But why is this so important to us?  And why does it seem to us that the truth is so unimportant to some others?  What is or how can anything be more important than the truth?  Is there anything that matters more than facts and reason?  Come enjoy fellowship and a good look at these questions with another unique, stimulating, and enlightening celebration of freethought.  And bring the kids too because we'll show them a good time as well!  The service starts at 10:30 AM at the DFW Wyndham Airport North.  Come a bit earlier for coffee and conversation and plan to join us afterwards for lunch too!

 

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Welcome to the North Texas Church of Freethought!

The North Texas Church of Freethought is a Fellowship of Unbelievers.  We do what all the other churches do, but with one less god.  Our aim is to offer atheists, agnostics, humanists, and freethinkers all the educational, inspirational, and social and emotional benefits of traditional faith-based churches.  We do this by preaching Freethought, a rational approach to religious questions of life, love, meaning, and happiness.  Our growing community of freethinkers provides a positive, affirming environment for leading a good life, free of the illogic and intolerance of other religions based on holy books and supernaturalism.

Our regular service takes place on the first Sunday of every month at the Wyndham DFW Airport North. Plan to arrive at 10:00 AM for coffee and fellowship, followed by our service from 10:30 AM until 12:00 PM. We encourage parents to bring their children to participate in our freethinking "Sunday School," where they will learn about the wonders of the real world and how to live life sensibly and well. We encourage you also to join us afterwards at The Golden Corral at the Grapevine Mills mall where most of eat and chat for up to several hours. If you've missed our service for the month, catch up by downloading our latest bulletin, subscribe to our email newsletter, subscribe to our podcast or listen to it on iTunes. You can also now find us on Meetup.com!

If you have questions about the NTCOF, they've probably been answered at our FAQ. If not, please drop us a line by email or voicemail. We hope to see you soon!

American Exceptionalism Print
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Friday, 16 July 2010 20:48

American Exceptionalism is the idea that the United States is special.  Do you agree with that?  How about you as an individual?  Are you special?  We all are, of course.  But if everyone is special then no one is special, are they?  Or, … is someone like President Obama or Queen Elizabeth II or the Dalai Lama special in a way that the rest of us aren’t?  And, if they are special, is the United States special in a similar way?

It seems doubtful that such questions have scientific answers.

There are also those who object to the idea of American Exceptionalism.  They say it is self-serving.  They say it is arrogant.  They say it’s intended to denigrate other nations or used to justify anything and everything ever done by the United States.

But exceptional doesn’t have to mean better in every way.  An exceptional student may still grow up to be a criminal.  But neither is an exceptional student one that excels at field trip attendance, pep rally cheering or returning books to the library on time.  Exceptionalism means achievement or distinction in something that is of particular importance.

American Exceptionalism is an idea usually attributed to the French writer Alexis de Tocqueville.

Toqueville and another man were sent by the French government in 1831 to study the American prison system.  But they took notes on everything they saw from which Tocqueville wrote Democracy in America.  For Tocqueville, American Exceptionalism meant the success of the American political experiment in representative democracy.  It was a remarkable achievement because it had never been done before, especially on such a large scale.  All previous efforts at self-government had been short-lived and hadn’t worked very well, even in the fabled Greek city-states where democracy was invented.

But it is said that no other than Joseph Stalin actually first used the term “American Exceptionalism.”  He did so while calling it a “heresy” advanced by fellow communists who used it as an excuse for failing to make the same inroads into American society and culture as had been made in other nations.

It turns out that President Obama had something to say about American Exceptionalism, which was this:

“I believe in American exceptionalism, just as I suspect that the Brits believe in British exceptionalism and the Greeks believe in Greek exceptionalism.”

President Obama was slammed for this statement, it being said that it showed that he does not actually believe in American Exceptionalism, that the President thinks that America is no more exceptional than Britain or Greece.

This quote is not on the White House website, by the way, but I was able to track it down elsewhere as part of a news conference held by the President in Strasbourg, France on April 4th of 2009.  Here is the question the President was responding to, from Ed Luce of The Financial Times:

“could I ask you whether you subscribe, as many of your predecessors have, to the school of American exceptionalism that sees America as uniquely qualified to lead the world, or do you have a slightly different philosophy? And if so, would you be able to elaborate on it?”

So we see here, firstly, that the question is coming from a European, in Europe, and in the context, specifically, of America’s role as a world leader and with reference to previous US Presidents’ viewpoints.  The answer given by President Obama was therefore a political one for the specific political circumstances.  And quite a good one probably.  But, wait, there’s more.  Like him or not, agree with his policies or not, the President went on to say:

“I’m enormously proud of my country and its role and history in the world.  If you think about the site of this summit and what it means, I don’t think America should be embarrassed to see evidence of the sacrifices of our troops, the enormous amount of resources that were put into Europe postwar, and our leadership in crafting an Alliance that ultimately led to the unification of Europe. We should take great pride in that.  …  the United States remains the largest economy in the world. We have unmatched military capability. And I think that we have a core set of values that are enshrined in our Constitution, in our body of law, in our democratic practices, in our belief in free speech and equality that, though imperfect, are exceptional.”

This seems the right approach to the idea of American Exceptionalism.  The facts are that the United States is exceptional.  History has now shown that reason and right are on the side of both government by consent of the governed – democracy – as well as the principle that governments are instituted for the specific purpose of securing human rights.  The majority is not entitled to do anything it wants just because it is the majority.

Has our nation always lived up to these ideals?  No.  But it has not gone so completely off the rails as to wreck itself and the rest of world either.  As former President Clinton said:

“There is nothing wrong with America that cannot be cured by what is right with America.”

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CURTIS SEVERNS CASE FEATURED ON ABC 20/20 MAY 7 Print
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Wednesday, 05 May 2010 13:14

Friday May 7th's ABC 20/20 program included a segment about junk science being used to send people to prison - even sentenced to death and executed - for supposed arson.  NTCOF’s own Curtis Severns languishes today in Texas’ Beaumont Federal Prison and is featured in the 20/20 magazine program’s online item here.

The portion on Curtis is short and didn't carry the emotional impact of the stories of mothers jailed for supposedly setting fires that killed their children.  But viewers got to see video that the jury at Curtis' trial never got to see: a fire test that showed that the explosion of heated aerosol cans caused the appearance of "multiple points of origin" that arson investigators in the case insisted proved arson.

The most infuriating part of the story was when Jay Schadler interviewed fire investigator John DeHaan in the last portion of the broadcast.  DeHaan had changed his conclusion in a case that had sent a woman to jail, but without telling anyone!  "I don't invent reasons to go back and re-examine cases," said DeHaan, as if people doing time for crimes they didn't commit and crimes that never even were are reasons that have to be "invented!"  When DeHaan was asked if he ever called the woman to apologize out of simple humanity and with the realization that his mistakes had put her "through hell," DeHann responded: "I've been dealing with clients of all kinds for 40 years and I'm sure the experiences they've had have been unpleasant."  He declined to even offer any remarks for the woman on air.  And DeHann is the same "expert" the prosecution used to convict Curtis Severns!  This was not mentioned in the 20/20 program.

Fire investigator Douglas Fogg, whose "science" led to the execution of Todd Willingham, fire investigator John DeHaan, and the detective in the case involving DeHaan, Detective Sandoval, were unrepentant.  Fogg and Sandoval remained absolutely certain that the innocent peopled they helped to convict were, in fact guilty.  It is a sobering reminder of how people become convinced of something and will choose to ignore or deny anything and everything that casts doubt on that belief.  The truth is that beliefs are not the important thing.  Thinking and how we arrive at our beliefs, beliefs that we should remain willing to give up for better ones at any time, is what is important.  As the 20th Century physicist and Nobelist Richard Feynmann said, real honesty is always bending over backwards to see if we might be wrong.  When can this possibly be more important than when people's lives are at stake?  But, sadly, these ideas and attitudes are not yet a part of public morals.

The Texas Observer ran an article on the subject of false convictions in arson cases a year ago which is here and takes note of this week's ABC program here.  The Dallas Morning News' TEXAS DEATH PENALTY BLOG also calls attention to the additional publicity here.  As we know, dozens of Texans have been exonerated over the last few years after being convicted "beyond a reasonable doubt," and not just for arson  Efforts to establish an Innocence Commission to ferret out these injustices and correct them continue to be resisted, even by Texas' Governor Perry who objects to "an added layer of government."  And we thought Republicans were the ones who most recognized how often and easily the government screws things up!  Finally, John Lentini, who was also featured on the 20/20 program as a fire investigator who supports relying on science and freeing people convicted on the basis of myths and "old wives tales," has a website here.

WHAT YOU CAN DO: Write your FEDERAL Senators and Representative asking them to support legislation to set up a an Innocence Commission to re-examine cases such as that of Curtis Severns.  Efforts in Texas are also worth supporting but will not help those, like Curtis, who were prosecuted and convicted in the federal system.  Also visit here, a website set up by Curtis' nephew.

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FRIENDSHIP Featured at May 2010 Service Print
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Tuesday, 04 May 2010 00:00

The May 2nd service of the NTCOF featured the subject of FRIENDSHIP by NTCOF Presenters Don Lewellyn, Erin Taylor and Licensed Professional Counselor Luciana Whipple.  Mr. Lewellyn considered some stories of friendship and the lessons – and questions! – such stories offer us in thinking about what it means to have friends and how friends help us bring meaning to our lives.  Ms. Whipple reminded us of what friends do for us and what we do for our friends, and also what friendships can’t do.  She discussed levels of friendship in terms of the degrees of trust and intimacy we establish with others, that friends offer benefits that show up in not just our emotional but our physical health.  Scientific evidence strongly suggests that loneliness and friendlessness can adversely affect life and health.  Drug and alcohol addictions can be the cause and/or effect of a failure to establish and maintain healthy friendships.  Most importantly, “friendship brings us joy!”  Whipple discussed how true friendships can survive conflict and difficulties, can overcome the bounds of time and space and even “dissolve the distance between life and death” when we remember and continue to benefit from our past connections with friends who have died.  Ms. Whipple identified 15 elements of successful friendships:

  1. TRUST (We need to be able to trust and to be loyal to our friends.)
  2. HONESTY (Tactful honesty is a foundation of friendship!)
  3. RESPECT (We honor our disagreements as well as our agreements and respect healthy boundaries.)
  4. ACCEPTANCE (We want to “be ourselves” with our friends and accept our friends for who they are as well.)
  5. SHARED INTERESTS (It makes it easier to have friends when we can do things together.)
  6. SHARED VALUES (The most solid friendships depend on similar core values.)
  7. COOPERATION (Friendships depend on a certain level of working together to foster and support the friendship and its needs.)
  8. RELIABILITY (Friends rely on each other so friends need to be dependable.)
  9. SUPPORT (As Mark Twain put it, we want friends that can defend us when we’re in the wrong since nearly everyone will defend us when we’re in the right!)
  10. UNDERSTANDING (Most people would rather be understood even more than agreed with.)
  11. SENSITIVITY (Friends who know us can often know how we are feeling.)
  12. RECIPROCITY (What we expect or do with or for our friends is what is expected of us.)
  13. ABILITY TO COMPROMISE (Friends are willing to “give in” at times and let the other person have something their way.)
  14. SENSE OF EQUALITY (It is hard to have a real friendship with someone that we are either responsible to or for.  This is why it doesn’t work out well for a parent to try to be “best friends” with their child(ren).)
  15. FORGIVENESS (Too much to say about this!  And even with friends forgiving is not the same as forgetting or even setting ourselves up for another cause for forgiveness.)

Finally, Ms. Whipple reminded us that we often need different friends for different situations and at different levels of intimacy, that one friend cannot fulfill all of our needs.  Our challenge, she concluded, is also to explore what it means to restore the public nature of friendship to the world.  There are connections between friendships and choice, justice and the public good that need to receive greater attention and care.

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